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The Club's Mission: To offer members free help to achieve win-win relationships with others in their lives (e.g., spouses, children, colleagues, customers, bosses, co-workers).
Who May Join This Club? Anyone of any age who is willing to use the win-win principle in relating to other people (and to themselves).
Four ways of relating to another person are:
1, Win-Win (I want to win in our relationship, and I want you to win also.)
2, Win-Lose (I'll try to win at your expense - so you will lose. The most common way.)
3, Lose-Win (I accept losing to enable you to win. I justify being your victim.)
4, Lose-Lose (I am willing to lose, just to make you lose also. Revenge!)
This Club is all about number 1, the win-win principle. (Each of the other three ways is counter-productive to interpersonal relationships.)
Club meetings are held every week, using teleconferencing. Members are free to attend as many, or as few club meetings as they wish. Note: It is commonly assumed that free things are mostly worthless because "you only get what you pay for." Before you assume that now, realize how valuable certain other free clubs are to their members (such as Alcoholics Anonymous, OverEaters Anonymous etc.). Like them, the Win-Win Club offes true value free of charge.
Who's It For?
1, Those who may enjoy decent relationships now with people in their lives, but realize that "good" is the enemy of "best" and so they join to enhance their existing relationships. They also join so they may offer help to others whose relationships are less satisfactory.
2, Those who have specific people in their lives (at home, or at work, or at school) where the relationship is failing.
3, Those who face personal problems (e.g., low self-esteem, depression, alcoholism) which are sabotaging satisfying relationships with others in their lives. The Club teaches this: Before improving relationships with others, it is often necessary to reshape your relationship with yourself. That's because personal problems like these usually result in a lack of self-respect, and it is very difficult to respect and respond effectively to others when you lack respect for yourself.
A New 12 Step Program:
You can gain self-respect, deal with your difficulties, and heighten the happiness quotient of your relationships if you practice the proven principles of the Win-Win Club's twelve-step program. It works so well because while each individual step is quite powerful in itself, when all 12 are combined, they work synergistically to produce wonderful results. Yes, these 12 steps will develop the emotional fitness required to make positive changes in even difficult relationships.
Three Big Benefits of Membership:
First, Win-Win Club meetings enable you to communicate with other people in similar situations and share in their struggles, successes, support, and suggestions. Second, every phone session is supported by a life-coach who can offer both guidance and inspiration. Third, you will be taught how to best use the the twelve-step program for maximum effect.
Further Benefits:
Enjoy the sessions in the comfort of your own home. Just phone a long-distance dial-in-number which you can access from almost anywhere. If you desire to be completely anonymous on the teleconference calls, use your first name only, or even a pseudonym. (This allows for full openness and honesty with no need for a mask.) If you don’t want to say anything on the conference calls, that’s fine, just listen in. When you want to communicate with other members, you can use the members' forum. And for any meeting, you can e-mail questions you would like addressed.
In the Win-Win Club, members are always listened to respectfully and empathically. Members may be offered suggestions, and gently held accountable for any commitments they may choose to make And members are invited to share from their own knowledge and life experiences, when that could assist other members.
In the gap between where you are, and who you are, lies your potential . To close that gap, and enhance your relationships, join the Win-Win Club.
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