Unfortunately, the most common emotion is regret.  Regret, not only of things in our past that we wish we hadn't done but, even more frequently, of things we wish we had done, but didn't. 

Often it is misplaced fear that prevents us from accepting those challenges.

Sometimes past regret applies to former relationships. To people who hurt us using a win-lose relationship style. Or those whom we hurt using win-lose.

Or regret from not pursuing a good relationship, one  which we didn't try hard enough to develop when we might have.   That's particularly sad when it applies to a parent-child relationship. 

Let's put our regrets behind us so they don't cloud our present level of happiness.  Let's move on to better relationships with a win-win attitude.   But better relationships with others often requires a better relationship with ourselves first.  Both can happen when we raise the level of our emotional intelligence (EI), and that's what The Win-Win Club is all about.